If
you find yourself wondering how so many people could have invested with Bernie
Madoff or how others could so successfully gull apparently sensible individuals
into believing their stories, read on.
Towards an Understanding of the Manipulative
Personality
“If
you owe the bank £1,000, they can make your life a misery. If you owe the bank
£10 million, then you own the bank.”
I
was first taught this lesson in immoral philosophy, when I began my posting to
the Fraud Squad at New Scotland Yard. My mentor, an elderly ‘mittel
european’ refugee and ‘businessman’, who had spent his mature years, either
selling insurance and other forms of investment opportunities, or borrowing
money from a series of banks and individuals, cross-firing it through a wide
variety of accounts, and then, mysteriously, forgetting to pay it back, tried,
gently, to teach me the gospel of eternal greed.
He
was, he would assert vigorously, not a crook!
Far
from it! He was merely the conduit through which a large number of very greedy
individuals (in which group he included bank officials), realised a false hope
of enrichment. The fact that they would, and could, never achieve their
ambitions, was immaterial. He was the provider of the avenue of golden opportunity,
through which this constant parade of ‘schmucks’ could try and reach their own
personal nirvana, a land of limitless opportunity, restricted only by the
limitations on their own credulous expectancy!
He
was a professional con-man, and over a period of months, he taught me that
virtually all victims of fraudsters have only themselves to blame. At first, I
was shocked. Did he not perhaps retain a certain degree of sympathy for the
old, the infirm and the weak-minded?
The
latter, the truly feeble-minded and those whom he considered to be incapable of
formulating a true understanding of the offer being made to them, he exempted!
They were not true ‘marks’ in any event, because their mental state meant that
they could not be said to be able to enter into the proposed arrangement with
the requisite degree of volition, which, he preached, was a very necessary
state, if the ‘big con’ was to be successful.
This
lack of the requisite mental state immediately predicated against their being
considered as true ‘sucker’ material because he could not accurately predict
their behaviour, and therefore this made them very dangerous from his point of
view. I came, slowly, to realise that he was not exempting them from any sense
of concern for their condition or for sympathy for their weakness, but because
they posed an unacceptable threat to him, and it was the existence of the
threat, whose implications he was powerless to control or influence, that made
him eschew this particular group.
This
was a man who always played the percentages, and he had worked out long ago
that when dealing with the real nutters, and the feeble-minded, the odds were
stacked against him!
As
my career in the Fraud Squad, and later, as a financial regulator and legal
practitioner developed, I came to realise the truth of the old man’s message.
He was not unique. He was a member of a class of men and women with a
particular mind-set, a group of individuals whose view on life had become
distorted, in some cases mildly, and in some, to an exaggerated degree. They
are all, without exception, victims themselves in some form or another, (he had
spent years in a concentration camp) and conducting their affairs in a
deceitful way provided them with a means of striking back at the perceived
injustices of which they consider they have been made victim!
Such
people all conduct their affairs according to the creed which my first teacher
explained to me. He divided them into three groups. In some cases, like him,
they do it merely to make a great deal of money. These are the practitioners at
the very apogee of their craft. They recognise their motivations, and they use
them ruthlessly to acquire huge wealth. They have no interest in any other form
of reward, and like as much as possible, to remain as anonymous as possible.
In
many cases however, other individuals use their twisted talents first to
acquire power, which they then use to acquire financial rewards. These are the
most dangerous, because they are really in denial as to their own true state of
mind, and are using their talents as much to deceive themselves as their
victims. Nevertheless, they will use the same disciplined tactics as their more
directly entrepreneurial colleagues.
Finally,
there is a small, but nevertheless identifiable group who suffer from a
clinically-identifiable illness. In polite company it is referred to as
‘Munchausen Syndrome’, but in more common parlance, the condition is known as
being a pathological liar! Such people are sad individuals who are simply
incapable of determining the difference between truth and lies, and cannot see
that their deceits and distortions render them wholly unbelievable. They also
fail to understand that others, with whom they have to conduct normal
relationships, quickly learn to distrust them, and guard themselves against the
impact that such dangerous individuals can impose.
All
these groups operate on the recognition of a carefully orchestrated combination
of conditions. As my old con-man taught me, the potential victim has to
demonstrate three important features in order to be successfully gulled, and
they have to be identified in the correct order.
The
critical triumvirate are greed, ignorance and fear, and they have to be present
at the right time in the process of the relationship, for the successful con to
work.
Once
they have been identified, it did not matter in which environment the con was
being played, it would be achieved successfully. Thus it is that the true
con-artist can operate with impunity in any market or climate where a financial
motivation is an important criteria of the perceived success or achievement of
the victim.
Greed,
he opined, was the crucial emotion. Greed enabled the victim to overcome his
natural state of caution, and encouraged him to exercise the important ‘willing
suspension of disbelief’. This was vital, because it was the crucial predicator
which rendered the victim capable of moving from the status of potential victim
to that of qualified ‘mark’. The reason such a move was necessary was because
once the greed emotion had been aroused, it was important for the ‘mark’ to
want to move to the next stage, and that desire had to be a voluntary one.
This
was where the second component came into play. Ignorance on the part of the
‘mark’ had to be maintained and encouraged. It was during this stage that the
critical degree of greed-enhancement had to be supported, because it was during
this period that the ‘mark’s’ psychological dependence on the need to continue
to believe the fraudster, was enhanced and cemented. If he was offering an
investment scheme, he would always insist that the potential victim invest far
more than he could afford. If it was in his work environment, he would always
commit to deliver a far higher degree of profitable sales than any other salesman.
‘The
schmucks’ he
would tell me, ‘are always on the look-out for something for nothing. If you
only offer a punter an investment he can just afford, you aren’t playing to his
greed motive, and he might consider backing out. Always get him to commit far
more than you know he can afford. He will beg, borrow or steal the cash to get
into the game. Once he’s hooked, you’ve got his money anyway, so what do you
care? The more he’s committed, the less likely he is to want to expose you’.
‘If he’s
a sales manager, then your commitment to achieve a huge sales target plays to
his greed factor just the same. He needs to make his targets to get his bonus,
and he wants his bosses to think he’s a go-getter. So regard him like the
‘schlemiel’ he is and treat him like a mushroom. If he asks how you’re going to
achieve it, just think of him like a punter, stay schtum, and give them any
load of old patter, but never give them any facts’, that way you can never be held accountable. When, later, you
haven’t reached the targets you promised, he will be so frightened that his own
bonuses won’t be paid that he will make any excuse he can for your shortfall.
He will go into bat for you, he will even fiddle the figures to make it look
like his team achieved their huge targets.’
Ignorance
of the true facts therefore was a critical component, and it was at this stage
that the greatest danger to the con-artist was present, because if the level of
ignorance could not be maintained, then the greed factor might be undermined, and
this could lead to an unravelling of the entire scheme, with potential problems
for the scammer.
So,
the necessary degree of ignorance was maintained by a number of tactics. The
choice of victim was an important criterion. ‘Always con your friends, family
or work-colleagues first’, the old man used to insist. ‘They are much
more likely to believe you and far less inclined to shop you, when it goes
wrong’. The ignorance factor could always be enhanced by making the victim
believe that even if the opportunity sounded too good to be true, it could not
possibly be unachievable because the con man was considered to be such a close
friend or a trusted work colleague. ‘A good con-man, he once told me, ‘doesn’t
have to go looking for his victim. In most cases, with the right story, they
will come to him!’ The more socially elevated a group they are, if your story
means they can achieve something which is important to their egos, they will
lap it up like kittens and milk.
Ignorance
could also be enhanced by providing a minimalist amount of information about
the investment scheme, the business plan, or the market opportunity. On the other hand, it could be achieved by
the provision of a huge volume of detailed reportage, designed to create an
overload of facts. On balance, this method was usually preferred, because it
gave the impression of crucial knowledge and technical expertise, a state
designed to alleviate potential disbelief.
As
my old mentor explained, most potential victims were too scared to demonstrate
their own state of pitiful ignorance, for fear of appearing to be less
qualified than they might want to be considered. Quite often, a neat variation
on the con-man’s methodology is to appear to defer to the potential victim,
implying that the ‘mark’ is a person of considerable experience in the area
within which the scam is to operate. ‘...Let
the mark do the work for you. Let him think he understands the proposal, then
his ego will lead him on...’ This is done, particularly within the
workplace environment, where a senior manager is being bamboozled, in order to
encourage him, as the potential ‘mark’, to believe that the proposal is one in
which he is expected to display competence and core knowledge. This is where
the fear factor, the third, and perhaps most vital component, comes into play.
‘Fear’ my immorality
tutor explained, ‘is the most powerful influence in completing the big con.
When you see the fear in their eyes, then you know you’re home and dry. You can
laugh all the way to the bank, because they are never going to admit what has
happened’.
At
first, I did not believe him. ‘Surely’, I queried, ‘once a victim
knows what has happened, he will want redress, he will seek revenge and
retribution’.
‘Very,
very rarely’, came the experienced reply. ‘Look at it like this. Virtually
all victims of the big con are stupid, gullible, and at heart, fundamentally
dishonest themselves. That is why a scheme that has all the hallmarks of overt
dishonesty or even mild criminality is far more likely to succeed, than plain
vanilla offerings. When they find out they’ve been conned, what man or woman in
their right mind is going to later admit publicly that they were willing to
part with their money in a scam which they were told was probably dishonest,
and certainly immoral’?
‘What
business manager is going to admit to over-promoting a man who has successfully
shot him a line about his ability to deliver profitable returns? If he makes
this admission, his own bosses will start to doubt his management judgements,
and query his decision to promote the man in the first place, and if the
bosses’ own financial rewards are threatened by his failure, then they will
line up to support him as well. The best situation for the scammer is if he has
the slightest chance of taking those above him down with him if he falls,
because then he will be wholly protected. All concerned will close ranks to
protect the con-man, sooner than expose him and then put themselves in the
firing line for their own incompetence. In reality, they will almost certainly
promote him, in the hope that he will become someone else’s problem’!
Fear
was crucially important, he explained, because its existence was the vitally
necessary degree of protection that meant that the scam merchant could
guarantee he would not be exposed. Most victims ultimately came to realise that
the scheme they had adopted was utterly risible, totally ridiculous and utterly
laughable and that they had been conned, but then were incapable of doing
anything about it. Indeed, the quicker they came to the unmistakable conclusion
that they had been fooled, the better, because then the con-man could move on
to the next ‘mark’, knowing he was safe from investigation.
The
true expert, he said, was the con man who having successfully gulled a victim
the first time, could go back and gull him again. While not an every-day
occurrence, he had achieved it many times himself, using a variation on the
greed and fear link, by playing on the victim’s willingness to accept that the
second time around, things might get better, and that the business opportunity
might just pay off. Like the inveterate gambler, the victim becomes the cause
of his own downfall, and continues to try to beat the odds, sooner than admit
he has been completely fooled.
This
method, in his opinion, worked best in the working environment, when management
could be more easily encouraged to believe that apparent failures to deliver on
commitments could be explained by external circumstances such as a change in
management in a client company, a purchasing policy shift, or the removal of a
key business facilitator.
Most
importantly of all in the work environment, if the con artist had the ability
to promote others in his own immediate team to more senior positions, or to
arrange for their internal reward, then this state of affairs could be allowed
to continue almost indefinitely. Someone with real ability who would not fall
in with the ethic of the group and who pointed out that internal policies were
wrong or damaging, had to be got rid of as quickly as possible and ridiculed or
smeared to make them seem foolish or worse, disaffected. Perception of others’
ability is always more important than real proof of competence. ‘People who
can’, generally do, and are usually always overlooked or. People who talk about
doing, generally get more attention. As long as the con-man can keep persuading
others that he and his team are hugely effective, regardless of the truth, then
more and more non-connected individuals would, when observing the almost
inexorable rise of his direct reports, assume that they must be doing something
special, if only to justify the realisation of their promotion or recognition...
Eventually,
I had to give up on him. No-one wanted to give evidence against him, in fact,
there were very rarely any complainants, despite the large number of people I
suspected he had scammed. He died a very rich man.
When
I heard he was ill and in hospital, I went to see him. I have to admit that I
had become very fond of the old rogue, as his refreshing openness about himself
and his incorrigible ways was almost addictive. Sitting by his bed, I asked
him;
‘Is
there anyone you couldn’t con’?
He
smiled, and patting my arm he said;
‘Of
course there is, you can’t con an honest man!’
But
then he smiled even wider and said;
‘Of
course, there aren’t too many of them around!’
3 comments:
The funniest thing about the rich dying con man is the idea someone finds it endearing that a life of cons is fulfilling.
Yes to have lived a full life is the goal. But how could one be full of life when their life is about disconnection, usury and seeing people like a vulture seeing prey?
The redeeming aspect of the story is there is one less con artist making ireedemable promises that make sure we become more and more desensitized to our ability to use our 5ive real senses.
Finally - WE ALL ARE BORN HONEST - dying like this guy speaks volumes to where the human race is heading.
So did the con artist die at like 43 from stomach and testicular cancer?
Would it not be perfect if his last days were spent not being able to satiate himself in a room full of his favorite food and all the women he ever dreamed of?
To top it off have his high school sweet heart wife ask for his approval of her marring the pool boy as she is pregnant with his kids step child.
Maybe I should not say stuff like this in light of the fact I may be fueling ideas just like this dying sack of human waste has done with the gift of life he trashed.
Just let us know - The Theif is dead right?
Now the story makes me feel much better - how about you?
Forgive me for calling this guy a theif.
I was giving theifs a bad name.
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